I am hosting a Teamspeak server for all of us to use now. the Servers name is also Despair-Sil'Iluuth and is a Clan server. All you need to join is a Microphone and some speakers and the program (which is free) that can be found here - Get Teamspeak Now!!
I have been using this program for years and it is safe and easy to use, if anyone needs help with the setup let me know and I will be willing to do so.
So if you ever wondered what your fellow despairites sound like.. now is the time!!!
P.s. this is an open forum.. and I don't want to put the IP address on here but if you want to connect that way tell me and I will let you know.